Women in the Workplace: Insecurity, Leadership, and the Need for Unity

Sharron L. Henley, MA, MIN, Journalist Conversations With Charito, LLC

In today’s workforce, women continue to navigate complex challenges that extend beyond structural inequality. While external barriers such as gender discrimination remain significant, internal divisions among women can also hinder collective progress. Too often, competition, insecurity, and a fear of being overshadowed prevent collaboration and mentorship. When a woman in a leadership position feels threatened by the skills or potential of someone on her team, she may respond by withholding support or creating unnecessary friction. These behaviors not only harm the professional development of others but also perpetuate a cycle of inequality within organizations.

Despite these challenges, progress has been made in many professional settings. Increasingly, organizations are recognizing the value of inclusive leadership, mentorship, and women supporting one another. A 2023 integrative review of leadership challenges for women found that fostering mentorship and peer collaboration significantly improves both retention and promotion outcomes for women in leadership (de Ruiter et al., 2023). Similarly, a 2024 study in STEM fields found that when women hold senior or high-status positions, they increase collaboration among other women and improve team outcomes (Atuk, Akin, & DiMarco, 2024). These findings demonstrate that when women empower one another, they create measurable change within workplace culture and performance.

For Black women in leadership roles, the experience can be particularly layered. They often carry the burden of both racial and gender bias while navigating professional spaces that question their authority or competence. This constant scrutiny can create additional pressure and, at times, foster competition rather than community. Gardner-Kennedy (2023) found that Black women leaders in nonprofit sectors frequently encounter both external racism and internalized color-based bias within their own communities, which can hinder solidarity and trust among colleagues.

Colorism remains a particularly damaging and persistent issue. Within the Black community, lighter skin tones are often unfairly associated with professionalism, attractiveness, and intelligence, perceptions that trace back to colonial history and social hierarchies. A 2023 review of psychological research on colorism among Black women found that darker-skinned women continue to face disproportionate challenges in professional advancement and interpersonal evaluations (Howard, 2023). These biases not only limit individual opportunity but also fracture unity among women who should be allies in progress.

To overcome these obstacles, women must commit to transformational leadership that emphasizes collaboration, empathy, and empowerment. Research on mentorship programs has shown that structured, intentional mentorship creates long-term pathways for women’s advancement and confidence in leadership roles (Nguyen et al., 2024). True leaders cultivate inclusion by celebrating others’ accomplishments, addressing bias directly, and promoting equitable access to opportunity. Intentional collaboration allows women to replace competition with community, creating a foundation for sustained success.

As Maya Angelou once said, “I am convinced of this: good done anywhere is good done everywhere. For a change, start by speaking to people rather than walking by them like they are stones you do not care about” (Angelou, 1993). Her words remind us that leadership begins with empathy and action. Every act of encouragement and support contributes to a larger movement of empowerment and shared achievement.

In this era, when diversity, equity, and inclusion are essential to progress, silence and passivity are no longer acceptable. If you are not supporting, uplifting, or advocating for other women, especially those who face compounded barriers of race or colorism, then you are part of the problem. Leadership today must be grounded in collaboration and compassion. When women lift one another up, they not only advance themselves but also reshape the culture of leadership for generations to come.


References

Angelou, M. (1993). Wouldn’t take nothing for my journey now. Random House.

Atuk, O., Akin, H., & DiMarco, M. (2024). How high-status women promote repeated collaboration among women in male-dominated contexts. arXiv preprint arXiv:2407.03474. https://arxiv.org/abs/2407.03474

de Ruiter, M., Meeussen, L., van Grootel, S., & van Laar, C. (2023). Challenges women experience in leadership careers: An integrative review. Social Sciences, 3(2), 21. 

Gardner-Kennedy, A. (2023). Colorism and women who self-identify as Black in leadership roles (Doctoral dissertation, Walden University). Walden University ScholarWorks. https://scholarworks.waldenu.edu/dissertations/12117

Howard, L. C. (2023). Colorism among Black women: A review of psychological research from 2000 to 2023. Citedrive Research Archive. https://www.citedrive.com/en/discovery/colorism-among-black-women-a-review-of-psychological-research-from-2000-to-2023

Nguyen, T., Ferreira, R., & McNamara, M. (2024). Optimizing mentorship programs from the perspective of academic medicine leadership: A qualitative study. BMC Medical Education, 24(1), 463. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12909-024-05463-6

Charito’s Corner: Protect Your Peace

Protect Your Peace
by Dr. Patrick Anthony Williams, Ph.D.

From the desk of Dr. Williams, Ph.D.

Have you ever tried to help someone, only to realize that they are deeply attached to their own suffering? It is a sobering revelation that some people are not searching for healing, only for sympathy. You offer wisdom, extend grace, and pour patience into them, yet it never seems to reach.

Because the truth is, some individuals are addicted to struggle. It becomes their identity, their comfort zone, their sense of normalcy. Chaos feels like home. Peace feels like a foreign land whose language they never learned to speak.

They pray for blessings, but the moment they arrive, they run back to the habits that once blocked those very blessings. They cry out for genuine love, yet sabotage the relationships that nourish them.

They ask for honesty, but when you speak truth, they label it as judgment. It is not that your words are harsh; it is that growth requires self-confrontation, and that is a mirror many refuse to face.

Accountability feels like rejection to those who have only known affirmation in dysfunction. At some point, you must accept this difficult truth: you cannot save people who are offended by accountability. That is not your divine assignment.

Your role is not to drown trying to pull someone out of water they are determined to swim in. Sometimes, love looks like distance. Sometimes, compassion looks like release.

Letting go does not mean you stop caring—it means you stop sacrificing your peace on the altar of someone else’s chaos. Because when you continue trying to rescue people who are loyal to their own destruction, you don’t heal them—you inherit their storms.

Their confusion becomes your confusion. Their battles become your exhaustion. The weight of their choices slowly drains your spirit until you begin to forget that peace is your birthright too.

So protect your peace. Guard it like sacred ground. Wish them well, yes—but also know when to step aside and allow life to teach the lessons your words could not.

Healing is a personal journey; no one can walk it on borrowed strength. And if they love their problems more than they desire their freedom, no amount of advice, prayer, or presence will save them. Sometimes, the most powerful act of love is letting go.

#ProtectYourPeace

Sharron L. Henley Celebrates 30 Years of Giving Back: A Legacy of Service and Resilience in Honor of United Way Miami’s Centennial

Photo: Sharron L. Henley attending 2025 United Way Miami Annual Luncheon and Awards Ceremony at The Ritz-Carlton Coconut Grove, Miami.

Miami, FL — As United Way Miami celebrates 100 years of community service, one name stands tall among its most committed supporters: Ms. Sharron L. Henley, affectionately known as “Charito.” A proud native of Miami and a living example of transformation through community investment, Henley is celebrating a personal milestone: 30 years of payroll contributions to United Way Miami; as a member of its Women United Giving Community.

Henley’s journey with United Way began not as a donor, but as a beneficiary. Raised and educated in Miami-Dade County’s public and private school systems, she found herself as a single mother seeking stability and opportunity. Through the support of her mentor and “second mom,” the late Dr. Shirley B. Johnson, former President of the Miami-Dade Chapter of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) Henley enrolled in United Way’s Welfare to Work program in 1994. At the time, the program was fueled by efforts like the Florida Dislocated Worker’s Center, a State of Florida and United Way Miami partnership aimed at empowering the unemployed with skills, training, and hope.

That program became a pivotal turning point in Henley’s life. It led her to successful completion of an undergraduate degree, gainful employment at Miami-Dade County Public Schools and The Urban League of Greater Miami, Inc., a long-standing United Way agency committed to empowering communities and changing lives.

Today, Henley serves as the Vice President of Program Development, Operations, and Management at that very agency, continuing her 28th year of empowerment. Only now, she is the one helping others find their path.

“Supporting United Way Miami is deeply personal for me,” said Henley. “I’ve experienced the impact firsthand. My three decades of giving are both an expression of gratitude and a way to pay it forward, so that another young mother, as I once was, can have the opportunity to shape a better future.”

Henley’s professional and civic contributions are as expansive as they are impactful. A graduate of Oakwood University with a B.S. in Biology and Full Sail University with an M.A. in New Media Journalism, she is a certified educator, an ordained minister, and a nonprofit leader with more than 25 years of experience in education, housing, public policy, and community empowerment in South Florida.

As host of her own radio program, Conversations With Charito on Excitement Radio, Henley leverages media to bring light to issues ranging from breast cancer awareness and identity theft to human trafficking and financial literacy. Her nonprofit, Urban Community Connections, Inc., further promotes cultural awareness and resource access, particularly within Black and Hispanic communities.

In recognition of her tireless work, Henley received the prestigious 2023 U.S. President’s Lifetime Achievement Award, the highest civilian honor for volunteerism and civic service. Her life’s work has also earned her national recognition from Yale University, the National Urban League, and Merrill Lynch Philanthropic Fund as a best practice model for youth and minority empowerment initiatives.

Henley also devotes time to serving on the boards of the National Council of Negro Women (NCNW) Metropolitan Dade County Section (MDCS), North Miami Beach Police Athletic League (PAL), and The Historic Georgette’s Tea Room—each a testament to her unwavering commitment to the community that raised her.

As United Way Miami reflects on a century of changing lives, Henley stands as a beacon of what that mission looks like in action. From a struggling single parent to a pillar of strength in Miami’s nonprofit and education sectors, her story is a reminder that transformation is not only possible; it’s powerful.

Henley is the epitome of what Women United stands for, resilience, leadership, and community,” said Elaine Rozier, an education consultant for “Achievement Matters” program of the Urban League of Greater Miami, Inc. funded by United Way Miami. “Her 30-year commitment shows us all what it means to give with both heart and purpose.”

As both United Way Miami and Sharron L. Henley celebrate milestone anniversaries in 2025, their stories intertwine in the most meaningful way, proving that a community can be rebuilt, one life at a time, when we choose to uplift and invest in one another.

To support the ongoing work of transforming lives across Miami-Dade, you can join Sharron L. Henley and thousands of other changemakers by donating to United Way Miami. Your contribution helps fund vital programs in education, financial stability, and health, providing critical resources to individuals and families striving for a better future. Whether it’s a one-time gift or a recurring payroll deduction, every dollar makes a difference. To make a donation or learn more about how you can get involved, visit www.unitedwaymiami.org. Together, we can continue building a stronger, more equitable Miami for the next 100 years.

The Power of Words and Service: Honoring Marlon Ferdinand: Veteran, Nurse, Firefighter, and Poet

By Sharron L. Henley, MA, MIN, Journalist and Radio Personality

Photo: Marlon “P.O.W.” Ferdinand


In every corner of life he touches, Marlon Ferdinand stands as a symbol of service, soul, and strength. Known in the spoken word and poetry community as P.O.W.-Power of Words, Ferdinand is not only a masterful storyteller, but also a 14 year U.S. Army Veteran; 16 year U.S. Airforce Veteran, retired as a Major; a registered nurse, Miami-Dade County firefighter/paramedic, and a dedicated father of five impressionable children. His story is one of purpose, passion, and a tireless commitment to uplift others, uniformed or not.

Marlon is an engaged and active member of his community, proudly serving as a member of the Rho Sigma Chapter of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc. in Miami Gardens, Florida. Guided by the fraternity’s motto, “Culture for Service and Service for Humanity,” He was initiated into the fraternity in the Spring of 1991 through the Epsilon Delta Chapter at the University of Miami. While his military service further deepened his commitment to discipline, unity, and service principles that closely align with the lifelong brotherhood and purpose driven mission of the Divine Nine, Marlon continues to embody these values through his involvement and leadership.

On December 19, 2024, the City of Miami Gardens held a street renaming ceremony to honor Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Rho Sigma Chapter, sponsored by Councilmember Reggie Leon. In a powerful tribute during this historic moment, Marlon performed an original poem in celebration of the chapter’s legacy and its impact on the community.

Photo: Marlon Ferdinand performing a powerful tribute at Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity Rho Sigma Chapter street naming. (City of Miami Gardens)


The Man Behind the Mic
With a military career spanning three decades, Major Marlon Ferdinand served with distinction, first in field artillery, then as a combat medic. His path of leadership and service extended far beyond the battlefield. Completing his nursing degree at the University of Miami School of Nursing, becoming a registered nurse and continuing his mission of healing transitioned this warrior to Homestead ARB Fl where he retired in 2019.

As a firefighter and paramedic in Miami-Dade County, Ferdinand responds daily to emergencies with the same courage and calm he honed in the Army. But Marlon Ferdinand isn’t just a man of action, he is a man of art. His alter ego, P.O.W., brings the same intensity and depth to the microphone that he brings to the front lines. Through poetry, music, and spoken word, he translates life’s most complex experiences into verses that move hearts and minds.


A Voice That Travels
Ferdinand’s journey as a performer began early, gripping a microphone as a pre-teen singing in church, guitar in hand. Decades later, P.O.W. is a seasoned voice on international stages, from London to Ecuador, and over the airwaves of 97.3 FM Afghanistan, where his segment “Captain Ferdinand’s Corner” inspired troops with messages of hope and resilience while deployed.

Throughout his military career, he demonstrated unwavering commitment, discipline, and leadership. His final deployment was to Bagram Airfield in Afghanistan from 2008 to 2009, where he played a vital role in supporting operations during a critical period of the conflict. Marlon’s experiences in both branches of the military helped shape his strong sense of duty and community values that continue to guide his service in civilian life.

His presence has also been felt on Miami’s iconic radio stations like 99 JAMZ and HOT 105, and on national television through NBC Channel 7 and Miccosukee TV in a moving tribute titled “This is for My Soldiers.”

Locally, he has graced stages at the Funk Jazz Café, Hooligan’s Lounge, and Barnes & Noble’s open mic nights. His blend of poetry, rap, and soul has become a unique genre all its own; a fusion of Floetry, Hip-Hop, Jazz, and Neo Soul layered with spiritual insight and life lessons.


Next Stop: FLO’POCALYPSE
Continuing his mission to move minds and hearts, P.O.W.will be the special guest performer at the highly anticipated 🎙️FLO’POCALYPSE!—a powerhouse spoken word experience hosted by none other than #MrFLO4Me, @QuickThePoet.
📍 Broward Center for the Performing Arts
201 NW 5th Street, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312
🗓️ Saturday, July 12, 2025 @ 7:30 PM
🎟️ Get your tickets now via Ticketmaster:
Ticketmaster Event Link (http://www.ticketmaster.com/event/0D0062A5D2AE2324?brand=broward)
For questions:
📩 mailto:Floetryentllc@gmail.com
🌐 http://www.flo4me.com (http://www.flo4me.com/)
This will be a night of lyrical elevation, and Marlon P.O.W.Ferdinand’s presence guarantees power, purpose, and poetic excellence.

Photo: http://www.marlonpow.com


The Mission That Drives It All
Whether he’s in scrubs, bunker gear, camouflage, or wearing a slanted fedora under stage lights, Marlon Ferdinand’s mission remains the same: To lift the world’s vibration through service, love, and mentorship. His performances aren’t just entertainment they’re acts of healing. His words, drawn from personal experience as a soldier, caregiver, and spiritual seeker, offer clarity in chaos and peace amid pain.

His debut album, “Rules of Engagement,” exemplifies this mission. A sonic blend of enlightenment and artistry, it has captivated fans of poetry and music alike with its poetic precision and heartfelt delivery.

A Man’s Man, A Poet’s Poet
Marlon Ferdinand, P.O.W., is not just a veteran of war, but a warrior of words. His story is a living testament to the transformative power of service, artistry, and authenticity. He embodies what it means to live with purpose and speak with power.


On behalf of all those you’ve healed, rescued, mentored, and moved, thank you, Major Ferdinand. The world is better because you chose not just to serve, but to speak.

Miccosukeemagazinetv. (2013, January 14). Musical artist and spoken word poet Marlon P.O.W Ferdinand performs, “Keep on Living” [Video]. YouTube.

When Your Child Blames You: Supporting Parents Through Emotional and Spiritual Challenges

“You ruined my life.”
For many parents, these words are devastating—especially when they come from a child you’ve supported with love, resources, and endless second chances. While painful, these accusations often reflect internal struggles within the child, not the truth about your parenting.

Introduction

Few experiences cut as deeply for a parent as hearing their child say, “This is your fault.” Whether spoken in anger, pain, or confusion, these words can trigger a profound emotional and spiritual crisis. Parents may find themselves overwhelmed with guilt, defensiveness, or heartbreak, questioning their past choices and their worthiness as caregivers.

In this article, we explore what’s really happening beneath these words—and how you can respond with spiritual strength, emotional clarity, and grace.

Blame directed at parents can sometimes be rooted in underlying mental health challenges a child is experiencing. Conditions such as depression, anxiety, drug-abuse, personality disorders, or unresolved trauma can distort a child’s perception of past events and relationships. In these cases, blame may become a way for the child to make sense of their inner turmoil or external struggles.

Mental health issues can heighten sensitivity to perceived wrongs, amplify feelings of abandonment or injustice, and lead to black-and-white thinking, where parents are cast as the primary source of pain.

Understanding the psychological factors at play doesn’t excuse harmful behavior, but it can help parents respond with greater empathy and seek appropriate support for both themselves and their child.


Faith, Psychology, and How to Cope with Blame-Shifting and Emotional Manipulation

Psychology Behind the Pain

Blame-shifting occurs when someone refuses to take responsibility for their actions and instead places blame on another—often a parent. It’s a defense mechanism designed to protect the ego from guilt and shame.

Projection is similar: it involves attributing one’s own negative emotions or behaviors to someone else. For example, a child who feels like a failure may accuse their parent of being controlling or unsupportive.

Neutral/Professional: “Blame-shifting allows a person to protect their self-image by deflecting responsibility onto someone else.”

Empathetic: “Blame-shifting is a way some people avoid facing painful truths about themselves—by placing the burden on others instead.”

Faith-friendly: “To avoid the discomfort of self-examination, some deflect blame onto others, preserving their pride at another’s expense.”

Slightly Formal: “By redirecting fault, blame-shifting shields the individual’s ego—often harming those closest to them in the process.”


When these behaviors escalate into gaslighting, they can cause deep emotional harm. Gaslighting involves persistent denial, distortion, or manipulation of reality, causing the victim (in this case, you) to question your memory or worth. To counteract this, it’s essential to ground yourself in your own truth.

Keep a written record of significant interactions to help maintain clarity and perspective. Seek validation and guidance from trusted friends, a therapist, or a support group who can affirm your experiences and help you set healthy emotional boundaries.

Most importantly, recognize that gaslighting is often a defense mechanism rooted in the other person’s unresolved pain or mental health struggles—it is not a reflection of your value as a parent. Protecting your emotional well-being and getting professional support can help you respond with strength and clarity, rather than guilt or confusion.


Faith-Based Encouragement

From the Bible (King James Version):

“For every man shall bear his own burden.”
—Galatians 6:5
➤ Each person is responsible for their choices—even your child.

“The foolishness of man perverteth his way: and his heart fretteth against the Lord.”
—Proverbs 19:3
➤ Sometimes anger is misplaced—and wrongly directed at you.

From the Qur’an:

“And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment…”
—Surah Al-Isra (17:23)

“So whoever does an atom’s weight of good will see it, and whoever does an atom’s weight of evil will see it.”
—Surah Az-Zalzalah (99:7-8)
➤ Islam teaches accountability for all deeds.

From Jewish Teachings:

“Honor thy father and thy mother…”
—Exodus 20:12

“All your deeds are recorded.”
—Pirkei Avot 2:1
➤ In Judaism, disrespect to parents is a serious spiritual failing.


Coping With Strength & Wisdom

Acknowledge Your Truth
You know the sacrifices you made. Don’t let false narratives rewrite your story.

Set Boundaries Without Guilt
Even divine love includes discipline. You can be compassionate and firm.

Avoid Emotional Spirals
Stay calm. Scripture in all traditions teaches restraint in the face of conflict.

Seek Support
Therapists, clergy, support groups, and faith communities can provide strength.

Pray or Reflect
Ask for strength, clarity, and healing—for you and for your child.


Final Word

Your worth as a parent is not measured by your child’s words in a moment of anger. It is measured by your faithfulness, your love, and your effort—even when it goes unseen or unappreciated.

Let go of what is not yours to carry.
Stand firm in faith, in truth, and in the quiet confidence that you did your part.


For more information, you can visit https:www.mentalhealth.org.

  • Mental Health Helpline: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)

This toll-free number provides 24/7, confidential support for individuals in emotional distress or crisis.

The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) provides information, advocacy, and support for mental health.

SAMHSA provides a national helpline (1-800-662-HELP) and a treatment locator for mental health and substance abuse services


Honoring a Legacy of Service: Maria I. Nelson Retires After 32 Years of Dedication to National Security

Photo: Mrs. Maria I. Nelson; United States Space Force (USSF) Headquarters

After 32 years of combined military and civilian service, Mrs. Maria I. Nelson, a pioneering leader in military cyber, will retire from the Department of Defense this September as the Deputy Director, Cyber Effects Ops Integration (COO/S36). Her story is not just one of career longevity—it is one of groundbreaking leadership, quiet determination, and lasting national impact.

Her retirement ceremony, to be held on Monday, June 16, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. ET in the Hall of Heroes at the Pentagon, will be presided over by Lieutenant General Burt, who will formally conclude Mrs. Nelson’s distinguished career. The ceremony marks the closing chapter of a life of service that helped shape and secure some of the nation’s most critical defense communication and information systems.


Trailblazer in the Stars

As one of the Lead Cybersecurity Program Managers at United States Space Force (USSF) Headquarters, Mrs. Nelson helped build the cyber foundations of the newest military branch, literally from the ground up. She led policy enforcement, strategy development, and cybersecurity governance across space mission systems. Her work on the Strategic Cyber Security Program (SCP) and Defense Critical Infrastructure (DCI) not only strengthened the resilience of space weapon systems but helped align the Space Force with broader Department of the Air Force (DAF) security initiatives.

Her achievements were recognized across the force, culminating in her being awarded the Air Force Information Dominance Award, the first ever civilian recipient of the honor within the Space Force.

But beyond the accolades lies a legacy of breaking barriers: Maria I. Nelson is the first Black Hispanic female to serve in her senior cyber position within the United States Space Force. Her presence alone has helped pave the way for future generations of underrepresented professionals in national security.


A Career Forged in Complexity and Crisis

Maria Nelson’s career began in 1988, when she enlisted in the U.S. Army as a 74C Computer Telecommunications Operator. From data centers in Europe to operations centers in the US, she built technical expertise that would later serve as the foundation for her leadership in cyber operations.

After transitioning to the civilian sector, she advanced through key cybersecurity roles across the Army’s technical infrastructure. She served as Chief of Cybersecurity at the Regional Network Enterprise Center (RNEC) National Capital Region, where she was responsible for securing communications for more than 25,000 users and over 25,000 systems, including those supporting Presidential communications.

During a period of particularly intense cybersecurity scrutiny, she led efforts that improved the NCR’s cybersecurity readiness, raising DISA Command Cyber Readiness Inspection (CCRI) scores from a failing 52% to a mission-ready 82%. She also supported high-profile initiatives such as securing Fort McNair during the WikiLeaks trial and served as a Security Control Assessor Validator (SCA-V) when the Army faced a nationwide shortage.


Certifications, Commendations, and Quiet Excellence

Mrs. Nelson’s résumé reads like a map of modern cybersecurity evolution. She holds a bachelor’s degree in computer information systems, multiple advanced certifications, including Certified Information Security Manager (CISM) and Certified in Governance, Risk and Compliance (CGRC). She has completed leadership programs at the Space Force Executive Leaders Course, the Army Civilian Advanced Leadership Course, and the Space Force Enterprise Leadership Course at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

Her trophy case includes the Commander’s Award for Civilian Service, the Civilian Service Achievement Medal, and multiple performance and special act awards. In uniform, she earned the Army Commendation Medal (2 OLC) and Army Achievement Medal (2 OLC), along with the National Defense Service Medal.

But those who worked with her often cite her quiet determination, tireless mentorship, and deep moral grounding as her most valuable contributions.


A Vision Beyond Retirement

As she transitions into retirement, Mrs. Nelson looks forward to a well-earned season of exploration, family, and gratitude.

“I’m incredibly thankful to God for blessing my journey and surrounding me with a strong support system—my husband, parents, siblings, faith-based community, colleagues, extended family, and dear friends,” she shares. “After retirement, I plan to travel with my husband to explore my rich, cultural Latina family heritage, while spending cherished time with our grandchildren, family and friends. I am excited for what’s ahead and deeply grateful for what God has allowed me to accomplish in my career.”


More Than a Career — A Calling

Maria Nelson’s legacy is measured not just by the systems she protected or the policies she authored, but by the standard she set. She has been a steady force in moments of uncertainty, a mentor to rising cyber professionals, and a living example that leadership is about action, not position.

Maria also takes great pride in her work beyond the office. She has been actively involved in the STEM-to-Space initiative, inspiring K–12 students through hands-on STEM events in local schools and sparking their interest in science and technology. Over the years, she has frequently volunteered her time to support young people, leading a vibrant teen ministry and teaching youth Bible study at her local church. Additionally, she and her husband have worked together to support couples and families, ministering to promote holistic family wellness.

As the Department of Defense bids farewell to one of its most influential cyber leaders, her colleagues, friends, and fellow service members celebrate not only a career of extraordinary distinction but also a life dedicated to protecting the nation from ever-evolving threats in an increasingly complex digital age.

Her retirement leaves a deep footprint in the corridors of the Pentagon and a high bar for those who follow.


Thank you, Mrs. Maria I. Nelson, for a career defined by courage, excellence, and service. Your legacy is secured in the systems you built, the people you inspired, and the country you helped protect.

About the U.S. Space Force & Career Opportunities

Established in December 2019, the United States Space Force (USSF) is the newest branch of the U.S. Armed Forces and operates under the Department of the Air Force. Its mission is to organize, train, and equip space forces to protect U.S. and allied interests in space, ensure freedom of operation in the space domain, and provide space capabilities to the joint force. From satellite communications to missile warning systems and orbital cybersecurity, the USSF is on the cutting edge of defense innovation. If you’re interested in joining this groundbreaking service whether as a military member, civilian, or contractor, you can explore current job openings at www.usajobs.gov by searching “United States Space Force” or visit the official USSF website at www.spaceforce.mil to learn more about career paths, internships, and eligibility requirements.


Dr. Erhabor Ighodaro, to Be Honored as 2025 Father of the Year by International Father’s Association


Fort Pierce, FL – June 6, 2025

Photo: Erhabor Ighodaro, Ph.D.

In recognition of his outstanding leadership, commitment to family, and service to community, Erhabor Ighodaro, Ph.D., will be honored as the 2025 Father of the Year at the 34th Annual Father of the Year Gala, hosted by the International Father’s Association. The black-tie event will take place on Saturday, June 14, 2025, in Fort Pierce, Florida, and will celebrate fathers who have made a transformative impact in their families and broader communities.

At the heart of Dr. Ighodaro’s many accomplishments is his unwavering devotion to his family. He is married to the Honorable Shannan “Lady Shannan” Ighodaro, an accomplished professional, politician, and community advocate in her own right. Together, they are the proud parents of twin daughters; Esosa and Idia, who are a constant source of inspiration and motivation in his life. As a father, Dr. Ighodaro exemplifies the balance of nurturing, guidance, and discipline—instilling in his daughters the values of faith, education, and service.

Photo: Dr. Erhabor Ighodaro pictured with his wife “Lady Shannan” and twin daughters; Esosa and Idia.

Dr. Ighodaro, a distinguished educator, public servant, and civic leader, holds a Ph.D. in Conflict Analysis and Resolution from Nova Southeastern University’s Department of Conflict Resolution Studies (DCRS), College of Arts, Humanities and Social Sciences (CAHSS). His career spans decades of advocacy for educational equity, youth development, and social justice.

A former Miami-Dade public school teacher and Chief of Staff to the late Dr. Robert Ingram of the Miami-Dade School Board, Dr. Ighodaro currently serves as Executive Director of the Dr. Robert B. Ingram Foundation. Through the foundation’s acclaimed READ to LEAD program, he has awarded over 5,000 scholarships to students in Miami-Dade County Public Schools, supporting educational tours of key Black history sites in Florida. He also leads the Ingram Africa School Alliance “Rites of Passage” Project, which connects students with cultural and educational opportunities in Africa.

Dr. Ighodaro is the Founder and CEO of Oracle Consulting Group, a conflict resolution firm, and serves as Professor of Criminal Justice at Florida Memorial University. He is co-author of Curriculum Violence: America’s New Civil Rights Issue (2010), a groundbreaking publication on education reform and cultural responsiveness. He is also a proud member of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc., where he continues to uphold the values of scholarship, perseverance, uplift, and manhood.

His numerous awards and recognitions include the United Negro College Fund (UNCF) Hall of Honor Award (2016), the Nathan W. Collier Meritorious Service Award from Florida Memorial University (2018), the Miami-Dade County Pillars Award (2012), and a place on Legacy Magazine’s list of the “50 Most Powerful Blacks in Miami-Dade County” (2016). He has served as President of the Nigerian American Foundation and the Rotary Club of Opa-Locka/Miami Gardens, and is actively involved in civic organizations including the NAACP, Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, and the 5000 Role Models of Excellence Project.

As the former Vice Mayor of Miami Gardens, Dr. Ighodaro spearheaded numerous initiatives promoting diversity, inclusion, and community well-being. From launching the city’s Special Olympics and SAVIOR anti-violence campaign to establishing its first radio show and monthly town hall “Uni’Tea,” he has consistently championed unity and empowerment.

“Fatherhood is not only biological—it’s spiritual, communal, and generational,” Dr. Ighodaro has said. “To be a father is to be a builder—of character, of hope, of the future.”

On June 14, 2025, the International Father’s Association will formally recognize Dr. Ighodaro’s remarkable legacy of leadership and love, bestowing upon him the title of Father of the Year—a fitting honor for a man who has dedicated his life to lifting others and lighting the path forward.


About the International Father’s Association
The International Father’s Association celebrates fathers who demonstrate exceptional dedication to their families and communities. Its annual Father of the Year Gala honors leaders whose lives reflect the values of integrity, service, and compassion.

Artist Spotlight: Willie C. P. Kendrick III “Avenue of the Arts” Art Exhibit

Photo: “Illustration of Black History” Willie C.P. Kendrick III

The Maryland-National Capital Park and Planning Commission proudly presents its “Avenue of the Arts” Art Display, featuring the powerful and diverse work of local artist and illustrator Willie C. P. Kendrick III. Showcasing from June 9 through July 18, the exhibition will be featuring his original artwork at the Laurel-Beltsville Senior Activity Center, located at 7120 Contee Road, Laurel, Maryland.

From Service to Studio

Willie Kendrick’s creative journey is anything but ordinary. A native of Laurel, Maryland and graduate of Laurel High School, Kendrick answered the call to service by enlisting in the U.S. Marine Corps, where he served with distinction at MCAS Futenma (Okinawa) and Camp Pendleton (California), including deployment to the Persian Gulf during Operation Desert Shield and Desert Storm.

Upon completing his military service, Kendrick redirected his focus to his long-standing passion for visual art and design. His pursuit of artistic and technical mastery led him through a rigorous and commendable academic journey.

A Foundation in Technical Precision

Kendrick began his studies at The Maryland Drafting Institute, earning top honors including “Drafter of the Month” and the “Best Drafting Techniques” award in 1993. These early accolades speak to his precision and attention to detail, skills that remain evident in his artwork today.

He continued his academic path at Montgomery College, where he earned an Associate of Applied Science degree in Visual Communication/Illustration in 2001. His work earned him several distinctions, including the African American Academic Award, placement on the Dean’s List, and induction into Phi Theta Kappa.

In 2007, Kendrick graduated magna cum laude from University of Maryland University College with a Bachelor of Science degree, supported by an Orkand Scholarship, further cementing his commitment to both creative expression and intellectual growth.

A Career in Creative Service

Professionally, Kendrick has applied his skills in both the private and public sectors. He began as a Mechanical and Patent Drafter, then transitioned to working as a CAD Operator and Graphic Artist for the U.S. Department of Labor’s Job Corps program. Today, he serves as an Illustrator for the Defense Media Activity’s Navy Production Directorate, where he creates compelling artwork and animations for the Department of Defense.

A Versatile Artistic Voice

Kendrick’s portfolio reflects both technical precision and artistic depth. Though he favors watercolor on mixed-media paper, his range includes pen and ink, pencil, gouache, acrylic ink, acrylic gouache, and a variety of digital media platforms utilizing Wacom tablets and computer drawing software with equal finesse.

This exhibition offers a rare opportunity to witness the blend of discipline, emotion, and creativity that defines Willie Kendrick’s work. Each piece reflects not only his training and experience but also the story of a man who has walked diverse paths—as a Marine, a student, a professional, and a passionate artist.


Don’t miss the chance to explore the work of Willie C. P. Kendrick III and celebrate the vibrant talent within our community.

Exhibition Dates: June 9 – July 18
Location: Laurel-Beltsville Senior Activity Center
Address: 7120 Contee Road, Laurel, MD
Presented by: The Maryland-National Capital Park and Planning Commission

For more information, visit M-NCPPC Arts and Culture

Shaquellia Holmes Honored with Humanitarian Award by The Charmettes, Inc. Miami-Dade Chapter at Annual Scholarship Breakfast

Miami, FL — The Charmettes, Incorporated, Miami-Dade Chapter, proudly recognized Shaquellia Holmes as the recipient of its prestigious William R. Sutton Humanitarian Award during the Brilliant Minds- Visionaries for the Future Annual Scholarship Breakfast a signature event celebrating scholarship, service, and sisterhood.

Photo: Shaquellia Holmes arrives at Miami Lakes Hotel.

The Charmettes, Inc., a national organization of distinguished women devoted to advocacy, education, and community empowerment, presented the award in recognition of Holmes’ unwavering commitment to service, her transformative leadership, and her continued dedication to uplifting the lives of those around her. Known for championing equity in education and building bridges between schools and communities, Holmes was celebrated as a shining example of servant leadership in action.

Shaquellia Holmes currently serves as the Executive Director of Business Partnerships for Miami-Dade County Public Schools, the nation’s third-largest school district. In this influential role, she leads district-wide efforts to cultivate strategic partnerships with businesses, civic organizations, government agencies, and faith-based institutions. Her innovative approach focuses on aligning community resources with educational goals, ensuring that students are equipped with the tools and opportunities needed to thrive.

Before entering the education sector in 2017, Holmes spent nearly a decade in local government, where she developed a deep understanding of public policy and community engagement. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Family, Youth, and Community Sciences from the University of Florida and a Master’s in Public Administration with a concentration in Government and Public Policy. A Lean Six Sigma Green Belt and graduate of several elite leadership programs, Holmes brings both technical expertise and a compassionate vision to her work.

Outside of her professional achievements, Holmes is deeply embedded in civic life. She currently serves as President of the National Council of Negro Women’s Metropolitan Dade County Section, Inc., and is a proud member of the Miami-Biscayne Bay Chapter of The Links, Inc. and the Miami Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Through these organizations, she furthers her commitment to community empowerment, youth mentorship, and social advocacy.

In presenting the award, The Charmettes praised Holmes not only for her professional excellence but for her “tireless spirit of compassion and her unshakable belief in the power of community.” Her legacy, they noted, is defined not just by the initiatives she leads but by the lives she impacts.

Photo: Shaquellia Holmes receives William Sutton Humanitarian Award.

Holmes accepting the award with grace and humility, dedicating it to her son Jonathan and the next generation of change makers. “This honor fuels my passion to keep pushing forward,” she shared. “Because when we invest in our youth and our communities, we build a stronger, more equitable future for everyone,” said Holmes.

As the Brilliant Minds Visionaries for the Future Annual Scholarship Breakfast concluded, attendees left inspired by the spirit of service and leadership embodied by Shaquellia Holmes, an extraordinary woman making extraordinary change.


For more information on The Charmettes, Inc. and their mission to serve communities through advocacy, education, and cancer research support, visit Charmettes, Inc. or follow the Miami-Dade Chapter on social media.

NCNW’s 31st Annual Umbrella Luncheon Celebrates “Men of Honor” in Miami-Dade County


NCNW’s 31st Annual Umbrella Luncheon Celebrates “Men of Honor” in Miami-Dade County

National Council of Negro Women
Metropolitan Dade County Section

Doral, FL – May 4, 2025 — The Intercontinental Hotel at Doral was the backdrop for an afternoon of elegance, inspiration, and recognition as the National Council of Negro Women Metropolitan Dade County Section (NCNW-MDCS) hosted its 31st Annual Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune Umbrella Awards & Recognition Luncheon. This year’s event, themed “Spotlighting Men of Honor,”celebrating the achievements and contributions of exceptional men in the Miami-Dade County community.

The luncheon commenced promptly with a moving video presentation highlighting the powerful legacy and mission of NCNW; an organization founded by Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune and committed to advocating for women of African descent, their families, and communities. The presentation set the tone for an afternoon rooted in service, honor, and progress.

Photo: NCNW-MDCS President Shaquellia M. Holmes pictured with “Men of Honor” Umbrella Luncheon honorees.

Shaquellia M. Holmes, President of NCNW-MDCS, extending a heartfelt welcome to guests and acknowledging the dedication of the event’s planning committee, Deborah Saunders, Chair and Tishria Mindingall, Co-Chair; whose leadership helped bring the vision of the event to life.

Guiding the program with grace and poise, while serving as Mistress of Ceremonies; Minister Sharron L. Henley, M.A., Chaplain, NCNW-MDCS, brought forth a meaningful and heartfelt afternoon filled with community spirit, laughter and celebration.

Photo: (Pictured left to right):
Shaquellia M. Holmes, President; Sharron L. Henley, Chaplain/MC; Deborah Saunders, Umbrella Luncheon Committee Chair. Tishria Mindingall, Umbrella Luncheon Committee Co-Chair.

This year’s theme, “Spotlighting Men of Honor,” recognizing trailblazing men who have made significant, lasting impacts across NCNW’s four core areas of concern:

  • Entrepreneurship & Financial Literacy – Mr. Danny Felton
  • Education – Dr. Steve Gallon III
  • Health – Mr. Ryan Hawkins
  • Social Justice – Brother Lyle Muhammad 
  • Social Justice – Black Men Win Together Initiative (BMW) Ed Ponder and Anthony L. Robinson

Dr. Steve Gallon III, District 1 School Board Member of Miami Dade County Public Schools, a longtime advocate for educational equity and public service, expressing his appreciation for the recognition.shared in an email correspondence to constituents:

Photo: Dr. Steve Gallon III
Men of Honor Education Award honoree.

“I am humbled and honored to receive this recognition from The National Council of Negro Women,” said Dr. Gallon. “Their proven and unwavering commitment to youth and the community is deeply aligned to my life’s work of promoting access to education and opportunities for all, especially those who have been historically marginalized and denied access to the American Dream.”

Two Special President’s Choice Awards were also presented:

  • Mr. Reginald Leon, Councilman, City of Miami Gardens
  • Mr. T. Willard Fair, President, Urban League of Greater Miami, Inc.

Both were honored for their exceptional leadership and enduring contributions to the advancement of the local community.

Adding to the joyous occasion, NCNW-MDCS graduating seniors accepting their graduation cords and book scholarships in various amounts, pausing in recognition to Youth Member: Imani Nissim 2025 Nancy S. Dawkins Humanitarian Scholarship Winner.

Photo: 2025 Nancy S. Dawkins Humanitarian Scholarship Winner.

The event promoting exciting raffle prizes and a vibrant atmosphere of community engagement, making the afternoon not only a celebration of leadership but also a joyful gathering of unity and purpose.

Photo: NCNW-MDCS Lifetime Member Nancy S. Dawkins addressing audience during Umbrella Luncheon.

Rooted in the legacy of Dr. Mary McLeod Bethune, NCNW-MDCS continues its mission of service, empowerment, and advocacy. The 31st Annual Luncheon stood as a powerful testament to that legacy, uplifting those who lead with integrity and impact.

The event was not only a moment of celebration but also a powerful reminder of the positive influence strong leadership can have on future generations.

To view the media gallery click on the link below:

2025 Umbrella Luncheon Photos

National Council of Negro Women, Inc. Metropolitan Dade County Section, Inc. is a 501(c) (3) organization.  For more information send email to mdcsncnw@gmail.com